

{"id":1338,"date":"2023-01-23T21:59:00","date_gmt":"2023-01-23T18:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/?p=1338"},"modified":"2025-01-18T22:45:05","modified_gmt":"2025-01-18T19:45:05","slug":"dema-ku-ji-bo-dayina-teqsiden-dersan-dixebitim-ji-dersen-xwe-diminim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/dema-ku-ji-bo-dayina-teqsiden-dersan-dixebitim-ji-dersen-xwe-diminim\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cDema ku ji bo day\u00eena teqs\u00eed\u00ean dersan dixebitim ji ders\u00ean xwe dim\u00eenim\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Di v\u00ea heyam\u00ea de ku ji \u00e7\u00fbn\u00fbhatin\u00ea bigire heta razan\u00ea em nikarin hewcedar\u00eey\u00ean xwe y\u00ean her\u00ee bingeh\u00een j\u00ee bi cih b\u00eenin, xwendekar ne\u00e7ar in bi pereyek\u00ee gelek k\u00eam bixebitin. Bi z\u00eadekirina bihayan hem\u00fb xwendekar ketine tengas\u00eey\u00ea \u00fb hem\u00fb bar\u00ea v\u00ea bihab\u00fbn\u00ea ket\u00eeye ser mil\u00ea xwendekaran. L\u00ea bel\u00ea rew\u015f ji bo xwendekar\u00ean jin h\u00een dijwartir dibe.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tev\u00ee t\u00eako\u015f\u00eena li dij\u00ee \u015fert \u00fb merc\u00ean zehmet, xweparastina ji tac\u00eeza devk\u00ee \u00fb fiz\u00eek\u00ee ya li cih\u00ea kar j\u00ee ji bo xwendekar\u00ean jin pirsgir\u00eakek giring e. Ji sed\u00ee 92\u00ea jinan li cih\u00ea kar rast\u00ee tac\u00eez, mob\u00eeng \u00fb asteng\u00eeyan t\u00ean. <a href=\"https:\/\/m.bianet.org\/bianet\/kadin\/220650-kadinlarin-yuzde-92-si-isyerinde-taciz-mobbing-ve-engellerle-karsilasiyor#:~:text=KESK%20ARA%C5%9ETIRMASI-,Kad%C4%B1nlar%C4%B1n%20Y%C3%BCzde%2092'si%20%C4%B0%C5%9Fyerinde%20Taciz%2C%20Mobbing%20ve%20Engellerle%20Kar%C5%9F%C4%B1la%C5%9F%C4%B1yor,cinsiyetinden%20dolay%C4%B1%20ayr%C4%B1mc%C4%B1l%C4%B1%C4%9Fa%20u%C4%9Frad%C4%B1%C4%9F%C4%B1n%C4%B1%20d%C3%BC%C5%9F%C3%BCn%C3%BCyor.\">Ji sed\u00ee <\/a>59\u00ea jinan li cih\u00ea kar rast\u00ee mob\u00eeng\u00ea t\u00ean, ji sed\u00ee 39\u00ea jinan dema ku maf\u00ean xwe y\u00ean zagon\u00ee y\u00ean wek\u00ee dest\u00fbr \u00fb r\u00eaxistinb\u00fbn\u00ea bi kar t\u00eenin rast\u00ee asteng\u00eeyan t\u00ean; ji sed\u00ee 39\u00ea wan dib\u00eajin ku di war\u00ea kar\u00eeyer \u00fb bilindb\u00fbn\u00ea de rast\u00ee cudakar\u00eey\u00ea t\u00ean \u00fb ji sed\u00ee 28\u00ea wan j\u00ee dib\u00eajin ku bi devk\u00ee destdir\u00eaj\u00ee li wan t\u00ea kirin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015f e xwendekar\u00ean jin \u00ean ku di heman dem\u00ea de perwerdeya xwe didom\u00eenin di bin \u00e7i \u015fert \u00fb mercan de dixebitin? Sedem\u00ean ku wan ne\u00e7ar\u00ee kar\u00ee dikin \u00e7i ne? \u00c7ima ne\u00e7ar in ku di bin \u015fert \u00fb merc\u00ean giran de di kar\u00ean pir erzan de bixebitin? Em li ser v\u00ea mijar\u00ea bi heval\u00ean jin \u00ean li kampus\u00ea re axiv\u00een.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8220;Ez difikir\u00eem ku dema bi\u00e7im zan\u00eengeh\u00ea ez \u00ea rehet bim, l\u00ea \u015fert \u00fb merc dijwartir b\u00fbn&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Yasemin<\/strong>a ku mamostet\u00eeya p\u00ea\u015fdibistan\u00ea dixw\u00eene got ku ji xeyn\u00ee dibistan\u00ea ew piran\u00eeya roja xwe li kar derbas dike:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMin di 13 sal\u00eeya xwe de dest bi kar kir. Dema ez zarok ez li zev\u00eeyan dixebit\u00eem loma min nekar\u00ee zarokat\u00eeya xwe bij\u00eem. Hewce b\u00fb ku xwe adaptey\u00ee \u015fert \u00fb merc\u00ean dijwar bikim. Min digot dema ez bi\u00e7im zan\u00eengeh\u00ea ez \u00ea rehet bim l\u00ea bel\u00ea \u015fert \u00fb merc dijwartir b\u00fbn. Ez hav\u00een\u00ea li Ayvalik\u00ea li ot\u00ealek\u00ea xebitim, mid\u00fbr\u00ea otel\u00ea ji ber ku min ew red dikir hem destdir\u00eaj\u00ee li min dikir hem j\u00ee kar\u00ean zehmet bi min didan kirin. Ez ne\u00e7ar mam ku terza cil \u00fb berg\u00ean xwe biguher\u00eenim \u00fb ligel v\u00ea yek\u00ea zext\u00ean ps\u00eekoloj\u00eek dib\u00fbn sedem ku ez biwestim. Min nekar\u00ee kar\u00ea xwe ba\u015f bikim. Dema ku dixebit\u00eem ez her tim aciz \u00fb nerehet b\u00fbm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNiha ez bi nav\u00een\u00ee 8-10 saetan dixebitim. Her \u00e7iqas ez wek karker\u00ean m\u00ear heman kar\u00ee bikim j\u00ee ji wan k\u00eamtir mea\u015f dist\u00eenim. Tev\u00ee ku bi heval\u00ea xwe re li heman kargeh\u00ea dixebitim \u00fb ber\u00ee w\u00ee 1-2 saet z\u00fbtir dest bi kar dikim, ew 1000 l\u00eere ji min z\u00eadetir dist\u00eene. Ev fikra baviksalar\u00ee min gelek di\u00ea\u015f\u00eene. Ez hewl didim heta ku ji dest\u00ea min t\u00ea ji bo j\u00eeyana xwe ya civak\u00ee wext\u00ea xwe veqet\u00eenim, l\u00ea bel\u00ea ji ber ku wext pir k\u00eam e t\u00ear\u00ea nake. Ji ber ku ez ne\u00e7ar im j\u00eeyana xwe ya perwerdeh\u00ee \u00fb kar\u00ee bi hev re bidom\u00eenim dem t\u00ear\u00ea nake. Ya rast\u00ee pere ji me re dibe al\u00eekar ku em ji xwe re wext\u00ee peyda bikin. Heger perey\u00ea te tune be tu hem\u00fb wext\u00ea xwe difiro\u015f\u00ee \u00fb wek berd\u00eala w\u00ea perey\u00ee dist\u00een\u00ee. Mesele bi kurt \u00fb kurmanc\u00ee ev e. Ez niha ji bil\u00ee f\u00earb\u00fbna ziman\u00ee di\u00e7im k\u00fbrsa dans\u00ea. Tev\u00ee v\u00ea, ji bo day\u00eena perey\u00ea k\u00fbrsa ziman\u00ee div\u00ea bixebitim loma ez ji ders\u00ean ziman dim\u00eenim. Ez di nav \u00e7erxeke b\u00eawec de me. Ez meh\u00ea ten\u00ea carek\u00ea dikarim heval\u00ean xwe bib\u00eenim. Dema ez derdikevim j\u00ee ser\u00ea min her tim mij\u00fbl e. Wek\u00ee div\u00ea ez heq\u00ea kir\u00ea bidim, fat\u00fbre j\u00ee hatine gelo p\u00ea\u015f\u00eey\u00ea ez wan hel bikim an ber\u00ee ku zivistan were p\u00ealavek\u00ea bikirim.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8220;Dem t\u00eara j\u00eeyana min a civak\u00ee nake&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ji be\u015fa endezyar\u00eeya elektr\u00eek \u00fb elektron\u00eek\u00ea <strong>S\u0131la<\/strong>y\u00ea<strong> <\/strong>j\u00ee behsa pirsgir\u00eak\u00ean xwe kir ku di dema staj\u00ea de j\u00eeyane:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cB\u00fbrs \u00fb pi\u015ftgir\u00eeya ku ez ji malbata xwe dist\u00eenim t\u00ear\u00ea nake. Ji ber v\u00ea yek\u00ea ez heftey\u00ea 6 rojan dixebitim. Ji bo min pir zehmet e ku ez van her duyan bi hev re bime\u015f\u00eenim. Piran\u00eeya wext\u00ea min li kar \u00fb dibistan\u00ea derbas dibe, dem ji bo j\u00eeyana min a civak\u00ee nam\u00eene. Tev\u00ee v\u00ea yek\u00ea mea\u015f\u00ea min t\u00eara ti\u015ftek\u00ee nake. Her wiha ji ber ku ji ders\u00ean xwe dim\u00eenim dibe ku ji pola xwe derbas nebim. L\u00ea d\u00eesa j\u00ee ji ber ku armanca kard\u00earan ten\u00ea kedxwar\u00ee ye, ji bo v\u00ea yek\u00ea z\u00eadedir hewl didin \u00fb ne xema wan e ku tu d\u00ea \u00e7iqas biwest\u00ee an j\u00ee \u00e7i h\u00ees bik\u00ee. Ez di\u00e7im dibistan\u00ea \u00fb pa\u015f\u00ea gava vedigerim mal\u00ea div\u00ea bixebitim. Li v\u00ee welat\u00ea ku serl\u00eadana kar\u00ee j\u00ee dibe sedema pirsgir\u00eakan, h\u00fbn dikarin k\u00eam-z\u00eade zehmet\u00eeya kar\u00ee texm\u00een bikin. Demek\u00ea min ji bo staj\u00ea ser\u00ee li kargehek\u00ea dab\u00fb l\u00ea bel\u00ea pi\u015ftre ez bi telefon\u00ea \u00fb li ser hesab\u00ean xwe y\u00ean medyaya civak\u00ee rast\u00ee tac\u00eez\u00ea hatim. Em ji t\u00eako\u015f\u00eena li dij\u00ee \u015fert \u00fb merc\u00ean xirab \u00ean kar\u00ee z\u00eadetir li dij\u00ee tac\u00eez\u00ea \u015fer dikin.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8220;Dem ten\u00ea t\u00eara razan\u00ea dike&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Dila<\/strong> j\u00ee ku di be\u015fa Mode \u00fb Tekst\u00eel\u00ea de dixw\u00eene diyar kir ku ji ber pirsgir\u00eak\u00ean abor\u00ee ne\u00e7ar maye bixebite:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cEz ne\u00e7ar im ku hem ji bo debara xwe hem j\u00ee ji bo debara malbata xwe bixebitim, \u00e7imk\u00ee di rew\u015fa hey\u00ee de em bi zehmet debara xwe dikin \u00fb ne mimkin e ku em b\u00eay\u00ee kar bij\u00een. Pir zehmet e ku mirov di heman dem\u00ea de dibistan \u00fb kar\u00ee bi hev re bime\u015f\u00eene. \u00c7imk\u00ee hem div\u00ea tu bi\u00e7\u00ee dibistan\u00ea, bikev\u00ee ezm\u00fbnan \u00fb di heman dem\u00ea de j\u00ee div\u00ea tu bixebit\u00ee \u00fb debara xwe bik\u00ee. Bi gotineke din, ji bo dibistan \u00fb xebata ezm\u00fbnan tu nikar\u00ee demeke z\u00eade terxan bik\u00ee. Wek\u00ee her kes\u00ee min j\u00ee j\u00eeyana civak\u00ee tune ye. Ji ber ku dema ez ne li dibistan\u00ea bim div\u00ea ez li ser kar bim, dema ez ne li kar bim div\u00ea ez li dibistan\u00ea bim. Ten\u00ea ji bo razan\u00ea wext heye ku ew j\u00ee t\u00ear\u00ea nake.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Z\u00fcmr\u00fct<\/strong> j\u00ee ku endezyar\u00eeya z\u00eeraet\u00ea dixw\u00eene got; \u201cHer \u00e7iqas min nedixwest dema ku ez xwendekar ez bixebitim, ji bo ku bo malbata xwe nebim bar ez li kar ger\u00eeyam.&nbsp; Ez ketim yekem kar\u00ea ku min d\u00eet \u00fb min dest bi kar kir.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMe wek\u00ee roj\u00ea 10 saet \u00fb 80 l\u00eere li hev kir. Hewce b\u00fb ku ez demildest karek\u00ee peyda bikim loma min qeb\u00fbl kir. Tevah\u00eeya roj\u00ea b\u00ea navber xebit\u00eem \u00fb min xwarin j\u00ee nexwar. Saetek mab\u00fb ku mesa\u00eeya min biqede \u00fb ez j\u00ee derketim derve da ku cixareyek\u00ea bik\u00ea\u015fim.&nbsp; Gotin tu \u00e7awa naxebit\u00ee \u00fb erza min \u015fikandin \u00fb ez ji kar hatim av\u00eatin. Div\u00ea em maf\u00ean xwe b\u00eenin ziman \u00fb bi hev re li \u00e7areser\u00eeya v\u00ea p\u00eavajoya xelet bigerin. An na em nikarin xwe ji kedxwar\u00ee \u00fb heqaretan xilas bikin. Div\u00ea em bi heval\u00ean jin \u00ean din re tevbigerin.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u00eako\u015f\u00een li dij\u00ee destdir\u00eaj\u00eey\u00ea<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jin\u00ean, ji bo p\u00eadiv\u00eey\u00ean xwe y\u00ean bingeh\u00een bi cih b\u00eenin ne\u00e7ar in di bin \u015fert \u00fb merc\u00ean neba\u015f de bixebitin \u00fb bi mehan di bin nav\u00ea staj\u00ea de t\u00ean xebitandin. Ji bo ku bikarin debara xwe bikin nikarin xwe ji kedxwar\u00eey\u00ea rizgar bikin. Wateya karek\u00ee ba\u015f ji bo jinan ne karek\u00ee payebilind e; karek\u00ee ba\u015f ew kar e ku metirs\u00eeya w\u00ea ya destdir\u00eaj\u00eey\u00ea k\u00eam e. Her jinek dib\u00eaje ku xwez\u00ee b\u00fbrs\u00ea t\u00ear\u00ea bikira da ku ez ne\u00e7ar\u00ee kar\u00ee neb\u00fbma. Zan\u00eengeh ji bo jin\u00ean ku taqeta wan n\u00eene bi\u00e7in dibistan\u00ea wek\u00ee derdorek\u00ea l\u00ea t\u00ea ku \u015fer\u00ea heb\u00fbn\u00ea didin.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her sal qa\u015fo b\u00fbrs t\u00ean z\u00eadekirin, l\u00ea bel\u00ea desthilatdar\u00eeya ku bihay\u00ea wargeh, xwarin \u00fb \u00e7\u00fbn\u00fbhatin\u00ea bilind dike, pereyek\u00ee z\u00eadetir ji b\u00ear\u00eeka xwendekaran derdix\u00eene. Li gel van deyn\u00ea KYKy\u00ea j\u00ee li ser mil\u00ea xwendekaran wek barek\u00ee dim\u00eene. Xwendekar\u00ean ku ji ber neb\u00fbna derfet\u00ean kar\u00ee ji bo dahat\u00fbya xwe dikevin metirs\u00eey\u00ea, k\u00fbr \u00fb h\u00fbr difikirin ka pi\u015ft\u00ee ji zan\u00eengeh\u00ea der \u00e7\u00fbn w\u00ea \u00e7i bikin.&nbsp; Div\u00ea jin\u00ean zan\u00eengehan ji bo daxwaz\u00ean xwe y\u00ean hevpar \u00ean wek\u00ee kar\u00ea ewle \u00fb z\u00eadekirina bergir\u00eey\u00ean li dij\u00ee destdir\u00eaj\u00ee \u00fb kedxwar\u00eey\u00ea bibin yek \u00fb daxwaza maf\u00ean xwe bikin. Ji bo p\u00ea\u015ferojeke ba\u015f \u00fb j\u00eeyaneke perwerdeh\u00eey\u00ea ya di bin \u015fert \u00fb merc\u00ean ba\u015f de ji bil\u00ee t\u00eako\u015f\u00een\u00ea tu \u00e7areya me nemaye.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>*W\u00eane<\/em>: <em>Evrensel<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ima xwendekar ne\u00e7ar in ligel xwendin\u00ea bixebitin? Xwendekar\u00ean jin dema dixebitin rast\u00ee \u00e7i t\u00ean? Dibistan \u00fb xebat bi hev re \u00e7awa dime\u015fin? Em li kampus\u00ea li ser v\u00ea mijar\u00ea bi heval\u00ean jin re axiv\u00een.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1343,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[97,103,115],"tags":[119,118],"class_list":["post-1338","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bemali","category-jin","category-zanko","tag-editore-mehe","tag-mijdar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1338","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1338"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1338\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1339,"href":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1338\/revisions\/1339"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1343"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1338"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1338"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unises.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1338"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}